alsonotdave asked: Also to the anon who asked about telling your boyfriend/girlfriend: I told my boyfriend over Skype, before we started dating. It was one of the hardest things I've ever done but it turned out to be a really good decision - he took the time to understand, asks me how I'm doing every day, and supports and encourages me. I'd say do it any way you can get it done; it's worth it....
Anonymous asked: to the anon about coming out with cutting: me & my boyfriend have been dating for a little over 6months, and I was always really scared of telling him, because i didn't want to be judged. He always used the work emo around me and I always asked him not use it. One day he just asked me why it bothers me and I showed him my scars(this was like, 2months in our relationship), he cares about...
Anonymous asked: If your in a romantic relationship with someone and your thinking about telling them that you cut, how do you go about it?
Anonymous asked: I was putting my razorblade away after spending about ten minutes cutting, and I accidentally cut my hand - two absolutely miniscule cuts, about a millimetre long apiece - and screamed and dropped the blade. It seems illogical that inch-long cuts don't faze me, yet these tiny ones sting terribly. Does this happen to anybody else? Is it just because it was an accident that it hurt so much, and...
Anonymous asked: I think it's best if I kill myself...What's one less person in this world right?
Anonymous asked: Please make room in the chat :'(
Anonymous asked: i really wish i could enter the chat right now..
About the chat room:
I made a page for it. http://thelifeofaselfharmer.tumblr.com/chatroom The link never changes, so if you like the chat room please save it somehow. If you don’t want to save it or if you lose it, just ask and I will give it to you. Here is the link to the chat room: http://us3.chatzy.com/86096984506234
Anonymous asked: I just wanted to tell everyone out there it gets better. It's almost been TWO YEARS since I last cut. I never thought I would make it this far, I still have breakdowns there are still times when I almost cut but I think about my friends and family and how much they love me and it saves me every time.
Anonymous asked: I just wanted to share that I've hit the one month mark free of self harm. I didn't think I could do it but I have and I know anyone who would like to stop can. Please, stay strong. I am so proud to be a part to this site and everyone on it.
l0vertits-deactivated20130416 asked: Girl, Interrupted is a great movie with lots of different themes involving self-harm. And Winona Ryder and Angelina Jolie, so what else could you ask for? You guys all stay safe tonight. I'm here to talk, and I love you all! Always remember you're so much stronger than it may feel right now. xoxoxo
Anonymous asked: I found a blog called confessions-ofacutter, which is one girl's feelings as she copes with giving up cutting. It's a pretty great blog to follow, and it's very relatable. Plus, the owner's super easy to talk to if you ever need advice.
hollyweeed-deactivated20120110 asked: to the anon asking about movies and stuff wristcutters: a love story (i think that's what it's called) is amazing!
themitchellclan asked: Hello. I'm sorry to sound like a pest but I just started a new blog called depressingconfessions and I would just like to get the word around to let people know that people are out there that will listen to them.
Do me a favor?
Live another day. Don’t harm tonight. Eat something. Smile. Take a deep breath. Please? I love you. <3
hisbestmistake asked: I'm not that great at tell my self harm story..but I'll answer any questions you have
emaciatedelephant asked: I am writing a story on people who self harm. If any of you is interested on telling me your story (being my guinea pig :D) leave me a message in my ask. <3
hugdrugsnotboys asked: For movies: Thirteen, Rules of Attraction Tv shows: Obsessed
Anonymous asked: For the person who asked about movies, I just watched one called Painful Secrets (AKA Secret Cutting). It was quite good, and it's on youtube. Enjoy :P
Anonymous asked: do you know some movie/serie about self harm?
icantlivemylifealwaysbackingdown asked: Anyone who needs me, my ask is open <3
Anonymous asked: yknow what sucks? when you go to the chat and you can't even talk about your problems because no ones listening anyway
once-upon-a-smile asked: We’ve all had our ups and downs but this blog speaks of those downs. Its no shock that to anyone that happiness can be snatched in seconds. Take the time and check out this blog.. i-was-happy-until(.)tumblr(.)com
letitalloutloud-deactivated2012 asked: My ask is always open for anyone. I've been through similar things, and I'll do my best to give advice, or I'll just listen. You can come to me with anything, I promise I'll always reply :) <3
once-upon-a-smile asked: I just wanted to tell all of you that my ask is ALWAYS open for any of you. It doesn't matter the problem I am here to help. I may sound like a hypocrite because of what I post but I know what each and everyone feels. I have gone through a lot and am still going through a lot. Just remember you all can talk to me whenever your big heart desires. I love you all!! <3
beautywithin1020 asked: My ask box is always open for anyone that needs to talk! :) I have been through a lot and I can relate very well to a lot of people. I always reply private unless it's anon. So feel free to shoot me an ask! :)
rapideyes19 asked: If anyone ever needs someone to talk too, my ask box is always open. I've been through a lot, and I can try my hardest to help anyone with anything they need.
we--were-infinite asked: if anyone ever needs ANYTHING please come to my ask. i'll give advice. my number. anything. i'm a former/in my mind current self harmer.
Anonymous asked: GIMP is exactly like photoshop and adobe ill. It's absolutely free. x
Anonymous asked: what do i use to make a picture?
Anonymous asked: can you do more pictures about burning
I was reading through responses to my question from earlier and (maybe I’m reading it wrong) but it sounded like some people thought I was going to post a real life photo. I’ve seen this happen in my messages too. I do not post real life photos. Never have, never will. The pictures I post are words on a color background. So, whenever I talk of pictures, it’s a word, sentence, phrase,...
I need to ask you something?
Do you think I should make pictures for the different forms of self harm? I have been putting it off because I feel like it would be triggering to some followers. So, what do you think, how would you feel, or would you be triggered by having, for example, the word “cutting” on a color background?